If it were the BOV, stock or aftermarket, every single time, then people would be hearing it whether or not they had an intake or removed the silencer in the stock air box. If it was as simple as the BOV fluttering open under boost, people could test it simply by putting stiffer and stiffer springs + shims in it and it should go away. You'll find that for most of us, that's not the case.
Plenty of people have done enough research to see that the flutter in that rpm range is from the wastegate and that it's a product of the way the turbos on the 13s were built. There's a whole 19 page thread that hasn't left the front page of this section for months with a ton of information in it. Everyone thought it was the BOV at first; turns out, it there are other factors at play. Why you don't hear it, I couldn't say.
For the record, I tried multiple ways of hooking up the BOV (for other reasons) and not one of them reduced the flutter sound in that range. Also, my stock BOV *WAS* fluttering right out of the factory, and after putting the new one on that specific sound went away. The wastegate flutter stayed.
I would direct everyone to this thread:
http://www.gencoupe.com/2-0t-discussion-2013-up/96383-2013-leaking-bov-video-19.html TONS of good information in there.